Strip club with your partner. Yay or nay?
The first time I asked my partner if we could go to our local strip club, he thought it was a trick question. But believe it or not, I love a night out in a strip club. I'm not a fan of clubbing, and I'm not too fond of crowds, but I love music, chilling out, drinks and Entertainment, and women.
But how do you know if the night will end in bliss or disaster when going with a partner?
Before you head to the strip club, ensure you are both in a good head space and feel confident enough to talk pre, during and post-visit, especially if it's your first time. The thing to keep in mind is that this is a night of fun and exploration, and even excitement. If there are any jealousy issues, avoid situations like this, as it may lead to more significant unresolved problems. Going to a strip club has to be something you will both enjoy without judgement or anyone feeling uncomfortable.
If you find your relationship is in a rut and needs some excitement to spice things up, then a strip club is a great way to get more intimate with each other. It's fun to ask each other what turns you on, what lingerie is doing it for you, and even learn some moves of the girls to try at home. This is what drunk me tried to do after a boozy night, but well, get to that in a minute.
TIP: Don't be afraid to discuss if you both want a lap dance and if that's something you feel comfortable doing together or individually. I prefer my partner and I to get a private dance together purely so we can enjoy watching each other.
The first time my partner and I went, we had a great time. Our local strip club is no Stringfellows, but it's still a great night out with good vibes and incredible women (we are quite the regulars now). We sat and enjoyed some cheap drinks while I paid a few girls to dance on the pole for us. After a while, I noticed my partner try and sneak me a private lap dance which I refused to do without him. While it was lovely of him to think of me, I was way more intrigued and turned on to watch him have one and for him to watch me too. The girls were incredible, and we ended up paying for more than one dance.
After a few too many drinks and not a lot of money left on the table, we headed home for a rather exciting night of sex. Slightly intoxicated and still high off seeing some gorgeous bodies grind up against us, I thought it was a good idea to try to replicate some of the moves and be extra sexy. I have no idea what I looked like, but I can only imagine it looked better through my beer goggles than in reality.
Regardless it is always a great night out that gets the juices flowing and leaves us wanting to rip each other's clothes off later in the night. Just remember to keep an open mind, and going to people-watch and have a drink is fine too.
